A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves.
it’s about who you miss at 2 in the afternoon when you’re busy, not 2 in the morning when you’re lonely.
Drugs become addictive the day you decide to use it to fill the gaps in your heart instead of using it for short entertainment.
Intimacy is not who you let touch your genitalia. Intimacy is who you text at 3am about your dreams and fears. Intimacy is giving someone your attention, when ten other people are asking for it. Intimacy is the person always in the back of your mind, no matter how distracted you are.
Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear that the two of you, on some level belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work, whether you understand one another or you’re in love or you’re partners in crime. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest circumstances, and they help you feel alive. I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but it definitely makes me believe in something.